Sometimes it’s better to lose an argument than it is to lose a friend.
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very true quote
We learn these things only after we’ve actually lost:-(
since frnds r siblings v choose ourselves so cant afford to loose them…very rightly said SANJIB
This is beautiful..how I wish friends take turns to win or
Yup! I loose most of time!
very true
bec in losing u win
Absolutely! …and that comes with awareness. If during an argument one is aware how one is getting trapped in the ‘ego-net’ and where that would eventually lead if not stopped right there, then one can back out for all the good reasons! A good heart is hard to find these days and we must think of how we leave the other person feeling after interacting with us…”losing an argument” to a good friend will keep the door open, keep the ‘bridge’ intact– they eventually come back to us and cherish the friendship even more!
its better to be kind than to be right..
So much kindness also taken for granted sometimes…
and i guess if we cant stay honest to our heart and friend…then charms of real friendships is not there…to have genuine friendships allow ur friend to be honest to heart and wih you both…
Absolutely! And thats really why one must choose what u say than say what u choose–we must learn the art of disagreeing without being disagreeable coz finding a real friend is rare, and when u have one, u must really not lose him
Agree….loosing an argument is not the end of the world….its just the difference of opinion:):)
as usual u r a GEM……………….
Wow !!! So true… I dont want to lose any friends…. they are my life !!! I value friendship…:)
Then put quick fix between the lips….if you lose an argument, another will come to fight on(if you are a good debater) but if you lose a friend………it’s gone for ever…..at least the distance you make between the hearts….it never be less….
@ Mitali…. Dont you know me ? May be one day I will be upset if there is any argument… but it would be always my initiative to come back again to my friend as I do care for my friends … My friends are forever and I mean it !!!
Come on yaar, it’s a generalized statement…..for us it’s different….one night we will fight and next morning we will giggle together…..
But jindagi ke safar mein naraz hoke chale jate hai jo dost ….wo phir nahi aate…….phir nahi aate…I have that experience Kalyani……..so it’s my endeavour not to capture all my opinions, ideas and feelings in words………as friends hold great value to me.