Friends & Enemies

Feb 1, 2012 by

It’s ok in life not to be friends with everyone, just don’t become enemies with them.

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  1. Rekha Malhotra

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    it is very easy to break with someone and become enemy but i guess we remember our enemies more than friends as the dont go out of mind .

  2. Pooja Srinivas

    ‎:) i needed that piece of knowledge.!!! Thanks….. :)

  3. Smita Agarwal

    wow………… very nice…………

  4. Chitra Rola

    well said…!!

  5. Anjana Chawla

    GURUJI says…..your very nature is love….win all hearts with love…no space for enemies in life..

  6. Aroona Mandhan Acharya

    Wow……..its so simple!!!!!

  7. Alpana Swarup

    yes…but sometimes it so happens that we want the best for others, try to help them in every way we possibly can, and yet things go awry!–they end up despising you or conspire against you instead! A devotee once asked Guruji “No matter how hard I try to make my parents happy and do things for them…I never seem to succeed! They are perpetually unhappy with me …” to which Guruji responded that “There are some people who are never happy with anything you do for them…with them you just know that you have tried your best & have given it your best effort and don’t worry about it too much.” We can control our intentions and actions but not others’ reactions and thoughts! So if others are spiteful towards us, we can just be compassionate for them and pray for them…and carry on with life! :D

  8. Urmil Wadhwa

    very good thought!!…………

  9. Raul Jain

    “When we can make friends easily…why make enemies???”—Ajay Devgan

  10. Kalyani Sengupta

    He he…… True….Will remember this… :)

  11. Deepa Meloot

    great thought!!
    Guruji makes every situation so simple and soooo manageable….JGD!!

  12. Vibha Sharma

    That is very nice!! I try my best that enemy..to stay and die inside me!!

  13. Chitra Rola

    So simple & profound.Easy to follow.!Thnx Sanjib ji.:-)

  14. Sanjib Mukherjee

    ‎Chitra Rola… the truth is always simple:)

  15. Saumya Swarup

    Your enemies are your biggest friends!!!!! :) :) they help u rectify ur mistakes!!! :) :)

  16. Sanjib Mukherjee

    ‎Saumya Swarup….anyone who invites me for naan and chillee paneer is my friend :)

  17. Saumya Swarup

    hehe :)

  18. Zoran Kamenicki

    I agree…the one with food as well, I am

  19. Neelima Kulkarni

    So True!

  20. Sue Joshi

    ‎; )

  21. Sanjib Mukherjee

    Zoran …. food is a universal enjoyment I guess!:)

  22. Sanjib Mukherjee

    Neelima ….. indeed:)

  23. Sanjib Mukherjee

    Sue…:):):)

  24. Sue Joshi

    Sometimes I personally feel endurance must have a limit … I used to endure immensely letting go constantly until I came to a realization that If someone doesn’t know they are harming you how can they correct themselves and to endure is also a sin … I now give 3 chances and sometimes more if there is genuine need for it but I do not take pain into ‘ME’ anymore… I’m sure you are all knowing about this already … I’m just clarifying to let you know where I Am … IN the Now ; )

  25. Sue Joshi

    Oh So kind of you guys to like my comment If I may add that I do not make enemies but rather i slowly remove myself from their company and allow them to let ‘ME’ go as a waste of time, that way no one gets hurt n everyone is a winner ; )

  26. Manisha Kandu

    Fab!

  27. Kênny Sùn

    But if they make us enemies with them ?!!

  28. Vishakha Waugh

    Yeah I agree sanjib… :) ))

  29. Sanjib Mukherjee

    ‎Vishakha Waugh…I agree with you too:)

  30. Sanjib Mukherjee ‎

    Manisha Kandu…. indeed you are!!!

  31. Sanjib Mukherjee

    ‎Kênny Sùn… no one can make us enemies but our own mind:)

  32. Sanjib Mukherjee

    ‎Rekha …. absolutely!!!!:)

  33. Kênny Sùn

    Ok :) I understand

  34. Anjali Bhargava

    simple and thoughtful ..:)

  35. Manisha Kandu

    Sanjib sir, not to sound flattering, but i really needed this quote of yours, it sounds simple and thats why its very important! Really great reading you! Keep sharing! God bless

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