My goodness Sanjib! You know it all! I see the mind like an innocent child which just tends to go out of control. Once it is out of control, it leads to the sequelae we all well know of–raging thoughts, desires, self-doubt, extra-sensitiv…ity, insecurity, irritability, etc. Yet the true nature of this “child” is so mild…so gentle…it j-u-s-t needs to relaaaaxx….The nature of the body is such that the more we exercise it, the more light and happy it feels; but the nature of the mind is such that the more it is allowed to relax, the more it expands and is happy!! So if the mind is allowed to relax it becomes its own remedy! :)
true our mind is cause of all miseries…but cure comes from heart and sixth sense mind gives such complicated solutions that make miseries more complicated …so when mind gives problems then ask answer from heart n mind together and at the ppoint they both agree that is best solution they give n long lassting changes n solution happen when heart m mind decide together…listen to heart…control the mind..trust ur intuitions..thne NO PROBLEMS sn MISERIES wil bother us..
thanks Sanjib…for such a great thought …
When heart and mind have conflitcts they talk and talk ..
so much fighting is there but surely winning is of heart…
as mind gets affeected by external things ..it easily come in other talks n negative points enter it so easily…that with such mind no sensible decsionn are taken yet heart n soul get unaffected by such external factors so they give beter decsin than mind..for sure..
Rekha, you continue to amaze me with your writing. You truly are an inspiration to novices like us. I think I know need to focus on “mind” or I will be thrown out from here.
Remembered a quote in childhood from a swami:
“He who angers you conquers you|.” Sanjib has truly touched upon an amazing secret about the mind game.
@ Sanjib: This one is my favourite so far, hope these quotes are going on the site.
Rachna i gues u write n think so cutely i always tell u that..but my way of thinking is just diferent i cnt handle complex talks of mind n cnt even behave or understand complexity of life..just want eveything should be KEEP IT SIMPLE AND SWEET…so that anyone even as litle kid cn get what we want to say….
Sob e moner khela………….lolz
Do breathing exercise and keep your mind in control……
Solution of a problem remains hidden in the problem itself……..
Sooo if someday you feel depressed, low, flimsy, just stand in front of the mirror… you will find the best person who can solve your problems…….
Sob e moner khela …means all is heart play…wow bengali words so similar to hindi Mitali…like it ..thru you..i m learning new words.thanks….
mind is like a kite we have to give freedom to rise high but just keep right amount of tightness if we will keep it much loose then it wont work…if much tighter then it wil break….so balance of mind is must to be maintained…
Aarey wah! you understand all bengali words……….!!! Great!
That’s right! our mind is like a kite…..it flies here & there…….But the string should be in our hand …..
if i have done friendship so i have to understand your language also…i feel the feeling when i dont get words…when i get meaning i feel more …when i get words i feel words plus feelings make me feel on top of the world…
In friendship language can’t be a major factor…….we should keep the vital spark of our friendship alight……. So what If we don’t understand each other’s language…?? Humare khamoshi har baat kahe jayegi …hum padh lenge in ek dusre ke aakho mein…lolzzzzzzzzz
it is trur that language does not mater much..but stil why not if we can learn more language …then it is more easy to feel hearty feeling…we can read words in eyes we can feel hearts…but if these feelings are expressed in words and we know the meaning also…then hearty feeling with beautiful touchy words wil surely reach the souls…
Great! Absolutely Right! Language brings people closer……. It has an even more profound effect on others mind…..But Rekha one thing I must tell you that you are master in expressing your feelings in touchy words…
Thanks Mitali you made my day with such a great compliment …
chitra loved ur way of complimenting in Russian …
i feel truly international now…DESI AT HEART still having love of all DESTI VIDESI friends….so blessed i feel sometimes…
Wow!! You have rendered me speechless with this statement. Absolutely outstanding!!
yes – correct-
yes if worry has solution than it will solve if there is no solution than why worry…. thanx Sanjib very nice quote!
Yani ke..tumne hi dard diya hai…tumhi dava dena….:))))
My goodness Sanjib! You know it all! I see the mind like an innocent child which just tends to go out of control. Once it is out of control, it leads to the sequelae we all well know of–raging thoughts, desires, self-doubt, extra-sensitiv…ity, insecurity, irritability, etc. Yet the true nature of this “child” is so mild…so gentle…it j-u-s-t needs to relaaaaxx….The nature of the body is such that the more we exercise it, the more light and happy it feels; but the nature of the mind is such that the more it is allowed to relax, the more it expands and is happy!! So if the mind is allowed to relax it becomes its own remedy!
:)
hehhehe true Rajni ussni ne dard diya hai to dawa bhi wo he dega keep faith:)
@Rajni- I like, like..!!
true our mind is cause of all miseries…but cure comes from heart and sixth sense mind gives such complicated solutions that make miseries more complicated …so when mind gives problems then ask answer from heart n mind together and at the ppoint they both agree that is best solution they give n long lassting changes n solution happen when heart m mind decide together…listen to heart…control the mind..trust ur intuitions..thne NO PROBLEMS sn MISERIES wil bother us..
thanks Sanjib…for such a great thought …
bole toh…sab’ MIND’ ka chakar hai…
Rajni i like it too…you have given pain u wil only give medicine…
shud i add more to it…
you have given thirst you wil only give water..
u have given heat u wil only give rains…
Dont play on the tunes of mind …let mind play on ur tunes..
win YOUR MIND to win hearts of OTHERS…
@ Chitra- bole toh!! I like, like, like..wish there were LIKE millions of like buttons….!!
ha ha shud i recomend to fb to give more like it buttons for rachna..
hey rachna now opening=============zip of smile…:)
When heart and mind have conflitcts they talk and talk ..
so much fighting is there but surely winning is of heart…
as mind gets affeected by external things ..it easily come in other talks n negative points enter it so easily…that with such mind no sensible decsionn are taken yet heart n soul get unaffected by such external factors so they give beter decsin than mind..for sure..
tension nai lene ka boss…..ekdum mast re lene ka..:)
Rekha, you continue to amaze me with your writing. You truly are an inspiration to novices like us. I think I know need to focus on “mind” or I will be thrown out from here.
Remembered a quote in childhood from a swami:
“He who angers you conquers you|.” Sanjib has truly touched upon an amazing secret about the mind game.
@ Sanjib: This one is my favourite so far, hope these quotes are going on the site.
Ekdam jhakaaaasss,bhai..:)@ Chitra
Rachna i gues u write n think so cutely i always tell u that..but my way of thinking is just diferent i cnt handle complex talks of mind n cnt even behave or understand complexity of life..just want eveything should be KEEP IT SIMPLE AND SWEET…so that anyone even as litle kid cn get what we want to say….
Oops error! Pardon me. It should be now*
Sob e moner khela………….lolz
Do breathing exercise and keep your mind in control……
Solution of a problem remains hidden in the problem itself……..
Sooo if someday you feel depressed, low, flimsy, just stand in front of the mirror… you will find the best person who can solve your problems…….
Sob e moner khela …means all is heart play…wow bengali words so similar to hindi Mitali…like it ..thru you..i m learning new words.thanks….
mind is like a kite we have to give freedom to rise high but just keep right amount of tightness if we will keep it much loose then it wont work…if much tighter then it wil break….so balance of mind is must to be maintained…
Aarey wah! you understand all bengali words……….!!! Great!
That’s right! our mind is like a kite…..it flies here & there…….But the string should be in our hand …..
if i have done friendship so i have to understand your language also…i feel the feeling when i dont get words…when i get meaning i feel more …when i get words i feel words plus feelings make me feel on top of the world…
wah wah…words…world..wonder!!
In friendship language can’t be a major factor…….we should keep the vital spark of our friendship alight……. So what If we don’t understand each other’s language…?? Humare khamoshi har baat kahe jayegi …hum padh lenge in ek dusre ke aakho mein…lolzzzzzzzzz
it is trur that language does not mater much..but stil why not if we can learn more language …then it is more easy to feel hearty feeling…we can read words in eyes we can feel hearts…but if these feelings are expressed in words and we know the meaning also…then hearty feeling with beautiful touchy words wil surely reach the souls…
очень хорошая мысль(russian)..means very nice thoughts!!
Great! Absolutely Right! Language brings people closer……. It has an even more profound effect on others mind…..But Rekha one thing I must tell you that you are master in expressing your feelings in touchy words…
Thanks Mitali you made my day with such a great compliment …
chitra loved ur way of complimenting in Russian …
i feel truly international now…DESI AT HEART still having love of all DESTI VIDESI friends….so blessed i feel sometimes…
love you all…dear friends…
so true Sanjib!!
absolutely.the mind bcomes the cure when it allows only two things to resid in it.purity and surrender.
total awareness can bring our mind to the ceter…
yes Sanjib thts true, i have read it many times and now have come to believe in it too tht……. ITS ALL IN THE MIND………:)
but the solutions dont come from just the mind – just as all miseries dont come only from the mind…
true…
Wow Sanjib !!! What a beautiful thought…
I just logged on today after four days and immediately came to your page to see what all thoughts of “Sanjib Mukherjee”‘s waitng for me…:)
Absolutely right you are….everything is in mind !!!
Its all upto you to to use it…….