…but yes you explained so nicely that some points i am able to understand and there are certain points that will take time for me to understand better…When in Advanced Meditattion course …it is said to keep silent…so when i came to know this fact i was not ready to attend the course..thinking oh my god …how can i be keep silent for 3-4 days continously

…and that too with family around and so many people around..how we wil manage our tasks..so the very first day it was really difficult..but the spiritual aura there is so strong all around people used to take care of our need without even saying a word…it was very strange and amazing experience and then 2nd day i was still ok that yes sometime without words also we can beautifully express ourselves…we got time to listen to our Guruji ,our teacher…and then see the nature around..talking to winds…how it moves

…observing the trees the leaves the flowers and the birds…and understanding their silent language..and most of all got so much time to analyse our own thoughts and then sometime the reall value of speech..the words…which we generaly utttering whole life..but dont realise its value much..

Sanjib i really like the point that words are thought in mind..then come to mouth ..listeend bye others..and then processed again so sometime the conveyor’s feelings are wrongly understood by the receiver…depending upon the mental level of receiver…like the same words i love you saying to different people can have different impacts…as our saying we know by heart what we feel

…the other person recievers according to the relation or feell of them towards us…so in that case even if dont say these words..we can still feel the love , we can stil feel the hatred even one does not say he or she hates…we can still feel the indifferences

…sometime just expression of eyes we can talk ..when we go to some diferent place not knowing their language as i went to paris..i cud not understand any word…at first but stil the smile said everything …that other person whatever saying from mouth is greeting us with love..accepting us to be part of their place their society…

and helping us to learn their languae…but in some places even we know their language…the expression we get are so indifferent that we think is it ok to say hello even..to the person who is not even ready to exchange smile..so words are beautiful medium for us to communicate and convery our feelings as we are doing now in net friendships no choice..but stil some unheard unsaid words have so much power in them…just an expression of smile..:) from a person can do wonders

…the whole day we can feel it..that yes we are close to our friends they want us to be happy and smiling ..just symbol can show us without words that our friend is not in so good mood and needs us to care and share and love…so smile is universal language….

Silence sometimes wonderful…and as i always feel and say..the best is Language of love…that is above all kind of separations boundaries walls languages that usually separates from each othere…stopping the flow of love from one heart to another

…so LovE is THE ANSWer to all hatred and love is the best langugae…whether you give it words..or not the feel definitely reaches we can see that when we love our pets and recieve love in turn..when we love our plants they grow fast n keep green when we love nature it gives us happiness n love…for all this do we need words anytime…NO …it is just universaly felt all arnd..

SANJIB…u are talking about silence and on that also i am saying so much…but i realy feel good when first thing in morning we get to read your thought and can convey ours through comments…
THANK YOU SO MUCH …AS ALWAYS YOU DO WONDERS SOMETIME WITH YOUR WORDS SOMETIME WITH YOUR SILENCE AND SMILES…LOVE AND REGARDS AND CARE …REKHA…

Speech is silver; silence is golden. It shows the value of silence…but silver has its own use as well…

Thank you for the very useful article Sanjib…. profound thoughts….would like to hear your response.

even there is a voice of silence which can be easily experienced when we go deep in our consciousness which makes our mind relaxed heart cool…. the association with the supreme is an art of being in true silence or with truth…..

being in that true subtle silence itself is to be with the truth so there doesnt come any question of defence or approach as all these words are appsolutely gross whereas silence is never gross, its a subtle phenomenon.