Comments on: Understanding Why Falling In Love Can Be So Painful

By: Om Shukla

Om Shukla — Sun, 06 Jun 2010 10:23:02 +0000

Wherever there is attachment, the clinging to the things of the world, you must know that it is all physical attraction between sets of particles of matter – something that attracts two bodies nearer and nearer all the time and, if they cannot get near enough, produces pain; but where there is real love, it does not rest on physical attachment at all. Such lovers may be a thousand miles away from one another, but their love will be all the same; it does not die, and will never produce any painful reaction.

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By: Rekha Malhotra

Rekha Malhotra — Wed, 05 May 2010 17:06:52 +0000

love…is like other births…is work of nature.!!! it is true that falling in love can b painful…but it is so beautiful that even we have to suffer pain everyone must experience this .May b it is way of nature to teach other beautiful feelings and emotions that we never able to learn…with love comes d feelings of togetherness..dissolving ourselves…liking n loving someone make us feel their feel..we always wish to know how our partner will think…what is that best we can do to make him feel more loving towards us..what he will like..n we learn so many things just for him..we started liking what he will like we start dressing how he will like n much much more things..so learn to feel jealous we want to possess we want to spend more n more time with him..in hope to know more n more so that we can not only touch d heart but soul of d person we love…
but our expectaions might cause us pain..as we wont get so much intense love in return …so then we learn to feel frustrated irritated depressing.n this wordl may b noone of u may like but it is a thing wen we learn more n more..d pain d hurt we can feel we cud never felt in anyother thing…n this may produce d beautiful verses,ghazals..as ven pain goes beyond d limit it becomes poetry or ghazals..so u see if u have never felt that pain in life how wil u b able to learn so many beautiful things n emotions…n then wen so much of it had happened then in trying to get out of d depression we find d ways…n sometimes being rejected by d worldly people we may find that we shud go to on path of spiritual love n start loving god n instead of one person start loving whole humanity…i dont know much about d bookish knowledge but that is what i feel that LOVE IS LOVE IS LOVE….u wil never know how it comes but it comes…feel it love it..each n every part of it is beautiful even d pain…
thanks sanjib..for making us able to convey our feelings n our thoughts also by comenting on d most beautiful most auspicious emotion LOVE…

By: Jessica

Jessica — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 16:10:36 +0000

Perhaps the most true love one can ever experience is love for yourself. Not necessarily your ego, but acknowledging that you are a being…a human being who is in love with being is the ultimate love. Falling in love with another is an entirely ego based reality because you want to possess them. Loving being goes beyond other people to love of the essence of existence. I easily hurt when my lover does not return my love, but when I reflect on being love and loving being then all my hurt simply slips away. What a fleeting thing loving someone else is and what an all encompassing thing falling in love with yourself can be.

By: urvashi

urvashi — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 11:41:38 +0000

Love transcends the reason to be…
there is something which connect you and your lover…
its like a meditation when two hearts meet and understand what the pther has to say seeing just the eyes, hearing just his voice, feeling through telepathy..this is love
What makes you forget all the worries when you place your head in your mothers lap…it is love indeed…
Just imagine yourself in the lap of God each moment..and this world will seem a silly thing to you…making you float in the Maya God has created!!!

By: Indira Dora

Indira Dora — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 06:59:55 +0000

love is ultimate!!!! but when in love we tend to get narrowed and all our attention is focused on our love……we get scared of losing him/her and so get possesive and the end result……….pain.

By: Marina Nadir

Marina Nadir — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 09:42:18 +0000

I like the wordsfrom one of the songs: “Loving may be a mistake but it worth to make it…”

By: Geethanjali Rao

Geethanjali Rao — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 02:44:27 +0000

The insight into love and ego was beautiful. Thanks Sanjib.
A little more..to add to all the beautiful expressions of love…
We love to love because it fulfills. We feel the need to feel full because we are under the illusion of not being whole. This false notion is creating the feeling of being seperated from the whole.
The ‘whole’ is the sum totality of all existence; God, who is the source of all creation, the root.
So, in actuality, all our experiences of love has a basis in our love for Him, however we would like to address Him.
The way to transcend the emptiness would be to transfer all our love unto Him….and see Him in all that we love…
When the root is watered, the whole plant gets nourished. When we pour our love unto Him, we are fulfilled.

By: Jaishree Charan

Jaishree Charan — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 15:23:25 +0000

Love is irresistible desire to be desired irresistibly…yes,,,though it wants to be unconditional sometimes there is expectation,,here is where Ego plays a role…we need to transcend this thro Yoga and go beyond………
Very well said by Sanjib…Thx
Liked what Ekta said too..“if you love something/someone then set it free. If it comes back to you, then it’s yours, if it doesn’t, then it never was yours”.

By: Kunjal Mehta

Kunjal Mehta — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 15:45:11 +0000

well whatever came from with in, I shared to you and nothing specific…

By: Naman Chhabra

Naman Chhabra — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 14:57:10 +0000

love is not sacrifice..cos sacrifice means giving someting when there is not enough to go around……

By: Lalit Bhatia

Lalit Bhatia — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 14:56:53 +0000

I should comment here Mrs Kunjal ….. love is always subtle, so there is no sacrifice as such because sacrifice is more of a gross process… its just love…. with deep consciousness & embodiment of love… that particular is spirituality…

By: Orla

Orla — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 13:12:54 +0000

love is the vibration we are vibrating at…simply put pure being is smooth like the velverty flow of love that guides all our actions, thoughts and being. It is the responsibility of each to awaken to the flow of love. Sometimes a person or nature or some beauty can awaken this channel and we remove our blocker like the the stopper in the bath, it is safe to flow. Fear however turns this and we close putting our stopper back in place fully or partially. Allowing the flow to move through is is all we can do – the heart feels this and opens and so we are – One.

By: Ekta Narula

Ekta Narula — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:03:32 +0000

As Sri Sri says, we should not fall in love….rather rise in love…..we are love and our nature is love…………..that’s the reason why we can feel love simultaneously for several people at a time…Love should have the capacity to transcend us beyond……………and not look out to possess or cling onto. If we love, it is to give……………..the taking will happen automatically. But as Sanjib points out, our EGO comes in the way. Therefore, a Master can guide you there as well………When you have a Master in your life, your love is more rich and you want to love more….:)
I have experienced that…………….so whatever i am saying is from personal experiences……Make Love a medium for you to reach out to……….it’s more fulfilling and satisfying….a few of you may ask then what about the physical aspect of love……well when there is love, the physical aspect follows automatically because it is the way of expressing your love…it’s only natural…..like the saying goes “if you love something/someone then set it free. If it comes back to you, then it’s yours, if it doesn’t, then it never was yours”.
Will write more, if more thoughts flow out”.

By: Vijyalaxmi

Vijyalaxmi — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 09:26:24 +0000

“sometimes as men, its best not to try and understand everything, but merely appreciate the wisdom of women for the divine treasures they really are…” Very sweetly put Sanjib!! No more comments!!!

By: kamlesh rastogi

kamlesh rastogi — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 07:59:07 +0000

very true, it’s the fact,we all know but still when we keep ourselves as an individual and then inspite of knowing everything our love starts expecting and demanding, it’s life keeps on moving. I feel when one is in pain then only comes true realization of so many factors. So my idea is love and pain are directly propotional to each other. You cannot rescue from either of it .

By: Kunjal Mehta

Kunjal Mehta — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 07:57:50 +0000

love is to sacrfice as much as we can and reach to a higher stage in spiritual life.

By: Gomti Dembla

Gomti Dembla — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 07:56:50 +0000

Falling in Love is so easy,simple and the most beautiful thing to happen……..But forgetting yr loved one is not…..!!!

By: Rama Gandikota

Rama Gandikota — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 07:56:23 +0000

Expectation is the root cause for Misery – When one extends love to another there is a component of expectation, if that is met out, will result in happy ending. If not results in pain…

By: Sanjib Mukherjee

Sanjib Mukherjee — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:56:09 +0000

Don’t apologise Naman, you spoke from the heart…yes a mothers love is unique, you are blessed to be able to recognize it and speak so passionatly about her….keep speaking you mind whenever you write..:)